With two extremely active kids and a busy, working husband, making use of “found moments” is one of the ways I stay sane. Because I see my clients on their schedules, I have to stay flexible and do more with the time I’m not with them.
You know those little snippets of time between work and running around? You can use those to get things done. Make portable technology part of the plan. So, when you’re waiting for the kids, return calls or emails. With an iPad, iPhone and laptop, I use wireless to stay connected to clients and keep on top of their mortgage application. My office has set up secure “cloud” access to files and information – the entire application process is paperless. The only paper copy goes to the client at completion.
Sometimes, even with accessing the cloud and using wireless, there’s still not enough time to get things done. This is where relying on others is essential. See if your partner can take on some of the kid driving and meal preparation to keep your household running smoothly. Additionally, you can often find groups of parents to take turns carpooling and sharing kid shuttling, this is an absolute must if you are a single parent. Raising kids alone is no job to do alone – take advantage of the help around you.
When life is busy, it’s important to make time for yourself. Make sure you find times to relax and enjoy time to yourself. I do yoga and run at 6:00 a.m. That time may sound unpleasant, but it’s a great start for my day and gets working out off my list by 7:00 am!
If you like to read, you might enjoy having another piece of technology that’s strictly for you. A Kobo, or other eReader, can always be loaded with great books. This is excellent for when you’re on your own, at a girl’s / mom’s weekend, or even at a soccer game.
Family time is a priority as well, so in our house, we pre-book two or three family vacations each year. Pre-booking means being busy doesn’t prevent it from happening – and one of those vacations is definitely at a beach. Best of all are the nights when the whole family is at home together. There aren’t ever enough of these moments, but when they happen, I make the most of them and hope you do too when they happen in your house!